I'm in the same boat. Given as much emotional warmth and consideration as a co-worker, maybe less.
It's part of the WAS mindset. Remember in their minds they are DONE. They have no reason to be kind or considerate. You, in their eyes destroyed the marriage and the love between you.
They acknowledge their part in the disintgration with their mouths, but their actions say, I blame you.


BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.