It is YOUR perception she is turning the knife.
YOURS.
She may not have even taken into account how much ( even though you said so) the ring means to you. For her it may have been that much babble going in and out.

If she is truly trying to twist the knife, are you going to give her that power to hurt you?
It is after all just a ring. If she values it that little, your feelings so little, why would you let her have that satisfaction.

However as 2step pointed out. Her communication was friendly.

Hmmm a contradiction.

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Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.