What, remember, it is less painful for her if she keeps it "business like." My W did the same thing and is still doing the same thing. Keeping it business-like so that she doesn't have to face the pain she is handing out. No one likes to face the fact that they are killing someone they love...

BITS never walk alone!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...