I would like to know how others have dealt with the aspect of piecing when you feel that you are the only one doing the work?
I mean, I know that she thinks she is and she is doing some work but is it normal to be expecting more?
For my sitch, I desperately miss the emotional connection through physical touch like we have all been talking about. I do get the hugs and the kisses when I initiate them. It's just growing harder on me because I feel like they are being done out of being asked to do it, not because she wants to.
Is this normal to feel this way?
And if it is, how do we deal with it?
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE