Thanks. I don't post a whole lot anymore either but I am just frustrated with feeling some of these things STILL--and I don't really have anywhere else to vent where people get me. Hugs.
Kat I agree there was nothing wrong with hanging out and just having a friend to do things with. That wasn't the problem. The problem as I saw it was that I was the one initiating contact and suggesting getting together 85% of the time. I am happy to have a mutual friendship but if I am making the effort all on my part then it isn't worth it to me.