Count your blessings instead of sheep...

[kat727]

You are mourning the death of your relationship. That doesn't happen overnight. Before you could possibly have a new relationship with Dan or anyone, you have to let this one go.

There is no set time so give yourself a break. When you get yourself to a good spot, you might find that Dan hasn't grown up with you. That isn't your problem though. You can only make the choices for yourself.

I dint think there was anything wrong with just hanging out with HG. The thing is you aren't ready to give your heart away and get serious, so why expect it of him? You could learn so much from being in a friendship relationship which may or may not turn into something more.

Hugs, kat