Thing is they are her support network. If she's demonised you, they've taken on her perspective as you being the bad actor in this. I haven't spoken to my inlaws since I called and told them H. walked out on me and the kids. They in turn have not communicated with me in that time either.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.