hi KML...thank you...

alternate email found on spokeo. could be an old email address or not! not sure.

Thank you for your advice.

Option 1) confront but be prepared (financially and also with legal counsel). Agreed. I think I need to do this.

Option 2) Act As If: Well...Have been doing this for the last 18 months or so (prior to hearing his voice mail message to OW left by accident on my cell phone). I have to laugh about the possibility of OW nagging him. That thought makes me LOL!
Honestly, I do not nag H. The yard is what it is. The house is what it is. Everywhere you look there is a bit of TLC needed...but I am not nagging. Honestly...I can and do and will do it all myself.

Option 3) Boot him just kick him out! Wow...I can't even comprehend that yet but you never know.

Thank you KML. I so appreciate your reply.

The sun is out in SoCal. Cold but beautiful....at home and H is out riding his groovy BMW motorcycle. He said he wouldn't be long and that was 2 1/2 hrs ago. Long enough for a shag with OW for sure. UGH!!!!!!!!


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14