I empathise with you right now. Seems that when they leave your expectation of them behaving in a decent and considerate manner can go out the window too.
I don't know what goes on upstairs in the head of someone that once said they loved you, to end up behaving in a manner that's anything but even how they would treat a stranger.
I do know that they're behaving and very much in a child like mindframe.
Denver is right, change the locks.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.