Shine on you crazy diamond II

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FOBD - I don't have any good advice concerning going dark. I am not there yet in my own sitch, but I do relate to the following.

If she is starting to panic, well, I guess that would be OK. I do want her to spend some time thinking about what she has done. But, I don't want her to completely lose it and do something foolish or just give up on us. I know, I can't control her or what she thinks. I can only control me.FOBD

AS my wife moves into her own apartment on Saturday, I am finally getting to a place where I am letting go inside. Not letting go of my DB. Not quitting. Just giving into the idea that I can only change myself. I cannot make decision for her. Will this apartment and "needing her space" allow her to really think about her position in our M? Will it just allow easier access to the OW? In the end, it is not mine to control.

I wish you the best, man. Keep your head up.