My Story - He Cheated while I was Pregnant

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Glad to see you out with your friends. Isn't funny how you grow out of things after awhile? I have tried to go out with my friends to bars, and I just feel out of place now. This isn't my scene. I usually am the first to leave.

I am learning to completely detach myself with the ideas or thoughts of the OW. If I don't my mind goes crazy and really takes me down. I have no control of my W's actions. I only have control of mine. Thinking about your H and the OW will tear you apart if you don't.

W is getting her own apartment next Saturday down the street "for space". As agonizing as it is, I just have to pick my chin up and say that I support her decision to need space right now and leave it at that. Inside I am crumbling, but I will not allow my W to see that side anymore.

I have picked up a ton of amazing knowledge on this site and learn more everyday. I hope you are getting the best of it as well.

Keep your head up. It will get better.