Another week has come and gone. Its been 4 weeks since I have gone "dim" and there has been no change in my wife's behaviour that I can detect. She is still in this no-man's land place. Doesn't want to leave the marriage but at the same time doesn't want to work on it.
I am just laying low, being positive, helpful and supportive wherever possible. Wife is so detached from the family, she doesn't want to do anything together. I have not asked her to do anything with just the 2 of us in over in a year. She also has no interest in any family related activities. My daughter just had a Birthday and my wife has made no effort to arrange either the kids party or family party. Whenever I bring up the subject, she just ignores the discussion. She also has no interest in attending any of the kids sporting activities.
Not being able to talk about the R is like living with an elephant in the room. Everyone knows the issue is there, but no one can talk about it. I find that this is the most challenging of the DB'ing approaches.
It will be 3 months next week since I confronted her about the EA and total silence from her on the issue since then.
Each day that passes, I have less and less feelings for her and am beginning to see her as someone that I could live without.
