You are spot on with my sitch. No OM and huge wall built up around her.
Friday we talked on phone during work and the conversation turned to the R. I talked about where we were at and where we are headed. She asked about how I am with and without the kids. I answered truthfully and asked her how she is? She said that it sounds selfish but she enjoys the time off from the kids. That when I have them she gets a break and gets to do what she wants.
During the R talk she mentioned that she doesn't have a answer yet because she is scared of making the wrong decision. She says that when we are all together she thinks its good because we are with the kids. She doesn't know if it would be the same if it was just two of us.
She got busy at work and I tried to end the conversation but she said she wanted to talk more. She sent me an e mail saying she wants to talk face to face maybe later this week.
I confused on how the convo should go. I don't know how much longer I can go in this limbo but I don't want to say anything that will push her in the wrong direction. Any advice?
