Such an ugly thing to experience. I think the more backed against the wall they feel the bigger the lash. He was up against the wall when ow couldn't join him to rescue your D.

When I caught my H at ow's apartment he lashed out by blurting out in front of ow some very personal things I had shared with him. He wanted to hurt me and make me look as foolish as him for getting caught with her (again). Later he apologized, one of the few I have ever got from him.

There is no rule here that says you cannot state your feelings and get angry, especially when it's backed up with facts.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.