Seeking, During this journey there are times when we have to say what is on our minds. Your time came after what he told your daughter. I would have done the same thing. If he's got something to say about you, he should say it to you, not your daughter.
You've said what was on your mind and now you need to step back and let it go. Will it make him realize what he's done? Probably not, but he will now know what button to push if he wants a reaction/attention. I'm very sorry he said what he did, but he's in the mode of wanting to demonize you and make himself look good in the eyes of his daughter while going through the legal procedures. He knows that he has lost you and his "security blanket"....now he's trying to back peddle and not lose his daughter too.
No 2 X 4's from me. You've handled your situation w/grace and dignity.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
