FOBD Buddy, I keep hoping things will come around for ya. I've been thinking about your sitch a lot bc you have helped so many of us here and we need to return the favor. I think you should contact her. you know her better then the rest of us. In DR in talks a lot about trial and error. Well you have tried the "dark" approach and it seems to not be right at this time. You have a legitimate reason to contact her, your not pursuing. I think its time to apply a little different stratagy.
