"This is the root of it. I think everyone here hears that loud and clear. Over and over."
So.. how do I stop it? How do I stop "feeling" like I have put more into this than she has? J3B there is a reason it keeps coming up.
"It's your fall back and entitlement."
But it is reasonable. Why do my actions become "entitlement"?
This is the question that has caused a rift "here". I have watched it.. I have posted thru it.
"Marriage isn't a trophy you mount on the wall and dust every now and then."
Really Jack.. I have just dusted it. My marriage has never been a trophy. She is the one dusting it. I have not seen nor heard from my wife in 3-4 years now. I am guessing that the only reason she is "here" now is because of the kids. I am not the cheater. I am not the liar. To this day she still denies that she had a P affair. I know better than that. She is still talking to him today.
"More like a plant you have to water and nuture. "I'm doing my part."
I keep pouring water on it.. dam$ thing keeps dying. Should I stop pouring water on it? I put it in the sun. I gave it some new soil.
"Your part is becoming if it already hasn't your excuse and justification for not being married."
How is one married if the other person keeps crapping on you?
