Lost, I think she is. Her last convo with me was not very positive. Her voice had a hint of anger in it that I have not detected in some time. I think she doesn't appreciate the "going dark." I think she sees it as the old FOBD. You know, the one who could not relate his feelings or his emotions. I am very worried about my plan right now. I am looking for input from the BITS on this. She shouldn't have any reason to be mad at me right now. I have complied with all her wishes lately. I still think she sees the "going dark" as me giving up on us. I think I am going to reconsider my approach starting tomorrow.

BITS never walk alone!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...