Recovering after a same sex affair - Part 3

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My W comes over tonight to drop off our S. I am upbeat and ask if they had a good day. They did. She explains some stuff about S. She then initiates convo about the $1900. She said that the money did come through, and that I may have noticed that she took it out. I calmly told her that we would discuss it on Tuesday at couples therapy. You could tell she was backpedaling and said something about it being money that we were not expecting and kind of like "free" money found. I told her again that I would discuss it with her on Tuesday. She tried one last time and mentioned that she was using it to put down on her apartment when she signs the papers on Monday. I again calmly said that I would talk to her about it on Tuesday.

Wow. Nice try at backpedaling on her part. I guess she doesn't understand that this free money found really should have been used while I was busting my a$$ working overtime at work to survive as soon as our baby was born. This free found money from September was not money that she could simply take out of the account to use towards her new apartment. Add in the fact that she said that she would update me on the details last week, and she didn't. Not only that, but she decided not to tell me when it was deposited nor did she think to ask me before she pulled out on a Saturday morning.

I am going to bring her up to speed on the splitting accounts on Tuesday. I am going to tell her that we will also be taking her off my cell phone and car insurance plans. That $1800 tax refund that I agreed to split with her at our therapist's suggestion, since we were still technically married and filling jointly. She can kiss that goodbye. It's a wash to me.

She will soon understand that this is her decision to move out. She will have to figure this out on her own. Figg you are correct on that.