CL, definitely read it. Find out what LL she speaks and then learn to speak it.

That's all she's asking for right now. I know you feel that you're doing the right thing and you probably are just not in her language.

It sounds like she needs affirmation from others. Make sure you can be that safe haven for her to give it to her.

If you guys are in a good place, have her take the test in the back that will show what LL you are.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE