DUDE! That is so awesome man. Not just what you are doing but what you are PLANNING to do. Love the attitude. Carrying forth the plan will be hard for sure but with that correct attitude, you can do it.
and I know you know it already but don't have any expectations for the trip. ACTUALLY, DO! Have expectations that you are going to be there for your W. Support her and make things as easy as possible for her. Be her rock, her support, her shelter.
That will pay back later for sure.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE