Thank you for your posts, I really appreciate the support.
H has ramped up nuttier than squirrel sh!t behavior.
Today my D18 sent me a text or rather she thought she did. Instead it went to her Dad. She sent out an SOS asking for help because the store she was shopping at had a computer glitch and would not except personal checks. She needed my debit card.
Well since H received the text he texted back and asked what she needed, so she told him. He said, "We'll be right there." Since D18 has never met the ow and refuses to, she panicked and called me. I told her to tell her Dad to never mind and that Mom would take care of it. He got the text and called her. She said are you coming alone. H got PO and told her yes, he'd come alone. Well, he was extremely angry with her when he got to the store. He also took it out on the poor store clerk.
After completing the transaction he told her he wanted to talk to her in private. So he excused D18's friend and took D18 out to the middle of the Mall and proceeded to read her the riot act. He told her she had to get over it. It had been 17 months and it was his life. She said that he'd been with her for 17 years and this wasn't an easy thing for her to get over. He went on to say that it was the ow's idea to come and save her at the store. D18 said she didn't need saving by her. If it meant she had to meet her she'd have just as soon left the clothes at the store. She told him she wasn't ready to meet the ow and probably never would be. H had a few more choice things to say about me to her as D18 stood there crying in the middle of the Mall.
He ended his tirade by telling her that I'm not saying your Mom is a bad person, I would never tell you that. He then left her telling her to think about what he said.
