Detach, sweetie. You know the right things to do. I know you question yourself, mostly because you want to keep the attachment. You sort of need to approach detaching and GAL like you are going to take no prisoners. No looking back, Sparks. Only moving FORWARD.
You are doing great!!!!
I'm praying for you.
LIS
Thanks, LIS! It's hard to detach completely with exchanging our son daily, couples therapy, and weekly dinners.
Even with my wife moving into her own apartment, do you think I should keep up with all of this contact but just avoid texting or calling her for anything other than co-parenting logistics? And even keep those brief?
Of course no relationship talk unless it is in our couples therapy, but should I just trust our therapist to guide that conversation? And no mention of OW at all.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
