Originally Posted By: Denver
you seemed very 'matter of fact' with your W in the convo.


Yes it is hard to convey tone of voice in a post.

It actually was a pleasant convo.

Not "matter of fact" The facts I put here. That's why it seems that way I think.

I am in a place that I know she has to do this on her own.

She knows where I stand.

Until she decides she wants our M there is really nothing more to be said.

Nor to be done unless I want my old M back.

It is allowing someone to complete their own journey and self discovery.

We can't speed that up.

We can slow it down by our own actions and words.

I am at a place where I know the difference I think.

Not perfect by any means.

I still let the emotion of my passion and concern for her get me.

It just doesn't rule my life and it won't because I control it.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am