Hey Alamo,Hang in there man. expected mess. yup, my wife left one too. I just cleaned it up.
As to some of her items, i initially collected them to her give them back. Later decided to keep them as memories. But if she asks for them, i'll give them back.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...