Almost 2 months since I drew the line. No contact.
The excuse?
Some mail she got for me that was important...not so important.
Anyway...
Yada Yada yada.
Stuff she has of mine. I said sell it and live off the $
W: How is dog?
TG: Fine.
W: Tell him Mommy says Hi
TG: Ok
W: Ok well I have to go to work sorry for the short convo. Call if you want to talk.
TG: W I already told you I won't be calling you. Did you undertand the last email I sent?
W: Yes
TG: Anything unlclear about where I stand? Ball is in your court. Do yo understand?
W: Yes. I am going on a sabbatical.
TG: A what?
W: I am going to South America for a few days to think about things. Out of the country.
TG: Well be careful down there.
TG over and out....
Gritter... it seems that you are detached from your sitch. I recognize that this is good. I'm wondering if you still feel that it is a 'loving' detachment?
It is hard to discern tone of voice from posts here... you seemed very 'matter of fact' with your W in the convo.
I'm curious if you have thought about this... and what it means to you.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce