Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Well W broke the silence.

Almost 2 months since I drew the line. No contact.

The excuse?

Some mail she got for me that was important...not so important.

Anyway...

Yada Yada yada.

Stuff she has of mine. I said sell it and live off the $

W: How is dog?

TG: Fine.

W: Tell him Mommy says Hi

TG: Ok

W: Ok well I have to go to work sorry for the short convo. Call if you want to talk.

TG: W I already told you I won't be calling you. Did you undertand the last email I sent?

W: Yes

TG: Anything unlclear about where I stand? Ball is in your court. Do yo understand?

W: Yes. I am going on a sabbatical.

TG: A what?

W: I am going to South America for a few days to think about things. Out of the country.

TG: Well be careful down there.

TG over and out....


Gritter... it seems that you are detached from your sitch. I recognize that this is good. I'm wondering if you still feel that it is a 'loving' detachment?

It is hard to discern tone of voice from posts here... you seemed very 'matter of fact' with your W in the convo.

I'm curious if you have thought about this... and what it means to you.

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce