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I feel like I have done my part.


This is the root of it.
I think everyone here hears that loud and clear.
Over and over.

It's your fall back and entitlement.
Agreeing with you andit strengthens it, disagreeing with you and you defend it.

Marriage isn't a trophy you mount on the wall and dust every now and then.
"I did my part."

More like a plant you have to water and nuture.
"I'm doing my part."

Your part is becoming if it already hasn't your excuse and justification for not being married.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet