Any BITS have any advice out there? Do I stick with this plan of 180, detach, and GAL?

I guess in the end that is all I can do, because I can't make her decisions for her. If this is all a game of manipulation and dishonesty for her, do I just sit back and try and not let it effect me?

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated