Yep. I especially like your last point. Either way, this is what I should be doing - getting out there and enjoying myself. Stayed out till 1am one night this week - never do that - but a bunch of neighbors invited me to their once a year guys night out. Heck, listening to them talk made me feel like I wasn't alone in some of this. I didn't share my situation, just listened mostly - but it didn't really matter. Felt good.