As we have been living paycheck to paycheck since the baby was born in August, it kind of is a big deal. That is money that both of us could use to keep our heads above the water right now. The fact that she pulled it without even a phone call?

I really feel like this is all for show right now. Couples therapy, our weekly dinners, 50/50 co-parenting, even those supposed no contact with the OW.

I feel like my wife's lies and manipulations are feeding this behavior. I am starting to feel like she has already made up her mind, and is just doing this to prevent me for going after the full custody of our son which she so desperately afraid of in our very conservative county.

Where I thought I was making real progress in the fact that we were really getting along, and made a stride in therapy as far as communication, and having a good time at our dinners, I feel like this is all a game to her right now.

Am I getting played here? Do I stop therapy and our dinners and go in the dark? This is really bugging me.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated