Down, we are in the same boat. I gave for 13 years always willing to give her LL. I told her I was pulling away. And I eventually did. My W too is willing to give to others but not to me. Here us my theory on this...
Your W no longer gives to you because you have accepted her. She no longer has to fight for your love or respect or affection or acceptance. She gives to others to gain acceptance. Something she lacked as a child.
My W is the same way. I am here because she refused to love me like I needed, and I pulled away. It will happen again if we can't work through this.
Really crappy!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
