Again I am just trying to understand this, because it's not as if she is calmly sitting down and evaluating if what I am saying is true.

She is refusing to even consider if what I am saying is true. She is even denying the possibility of it being true.

I have seen this pattern before in other women I have loved.

So maybe the real question is, what does it have to do with me, and what am I going to do about it?

How do I relate to a person who is unable or unwilling to see what I am seeing, when their actions will have a direct impact on me?

How do I protect myself?

Where do I draw the line?

How do I back it up?

How do I be both invincible and compassionate?

And still LTFU?

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?