Let Us Be Outstanding Together.

[Busting Mode]

I believe that if I can understand the problem, then maybe I can solve it.

Right now I am looking at my current situation with Beckie as a problem to be solved.

I'm not sure why, but I feel it is a mistake to look at it like that.

I also believe that if I can get her to see my side of it, then we can undoubtedly solve the problem together.

I feel that is probably a mistake, as well.

I am feeling that because I know she does not currently see it the way that I am seeing it.

Nor does she even care to.

I feel (there's that unfamiliar word again - I'm trying to get used to it) I feel that even now as I am typing, I am still trying to process this whole thing logically.

To try and make some sense of it.

While she appears to be acting primarily on intuition and emotion.

In order to simply run with it.


So how do I let her run,
how can I immediately get right out of her way,
without letting her knock me over in the process?


One thing I feel might help is if I start typing a whole lot less than I've been doing. My communications with her have become increasingly less frequent, but when we do talk I think I am still rambling on a bit too much.

Probably still coming across as if I am trying to convince her.

I feel that if pull back even more, and explain myself even less (wow. there's a 180) then eventually she will listen. After all, the ball is about to be back in my court, as she will soon be expecting me to complete my end of the paper work.


So at that point, how do I engage her in a friendly and respectful conversation where she feels safe enough to hear my potentially identity-destroying-foundation-cracking-walls-come-tumbling-down point of view?

Or maybe I should simply focus on getting her back to the DB coaching table.

Back off. Even more.
Say less.
Do more for myself.

Keep up.