Brian: sorry to task this. Hope i am not intruding too much.
So you play a lot of games. But you also mentioned that you guys made love after 1 year?
Is there a reason why your sex life was down? You also mentioned that both of you were depressed. Any reason?
Thats because i dont think your wife decided to leave just because of your video game addiction. Maybe there's something else underneath that was eating the relationship.
See I had a horrible addiction to hobbies. I had tons of hobbies. R/C, metalworking, woodworking, model trains, you name it. But underneath i was depressed. Depressed that our relationship was going down the drain. I did not actively try to improve the relationship. Now my wife did hate me having all these hobbies. When she left i wondered if my hobbies were a reason. In a way they were a reason. Hobbies kept me from working on my relationship.
So it would be good to analyze to see if there was something else that could a big reason for your wife walking out.
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