Denver, I want to personally thank you for your post. I came here today in the dumps and you have, once again, lifted me from the darkness. You are right, TIME and PATIENCE!!! Can I stomach it? I don't know. But, I have to ask myself:

1) Do you want to give up now?
2) Do you have what it takes to see this through?
3) How do you want this to end?

If I quit now, I will never know the answers to any of these questions. I have to continue to remind myself that she still loves me whether she shows it or not.

Thank you! Thank you!

I am going to recommend "Lt. Denver" to the headquarters of BITS Central Command for his valor in the face of depression and anxiety. You have fought well and have earned this award!

BITS never walk alone!!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...