...he announces he wants a divorce 3 hrs before he takes off to see his new love interest? He wants to help me keep the house for the kids stability and to save us both from foreclosure...but that means he has to live here in another room. At first, (last week) I thought I could handle it, as if we were roommates. Now, I don't think I can. I am a mess as I here him grooming himself to go to spend the night with our daughter's softball coach (the new woman)again this weekend. Our children are 13 and 11. They have figured out what is going on...btw, he is a pathetic liar. As much as we all love him and will miss him. We are in so much pain as he spends his weekends with OW. We think we want to kick him out now...but he is our sole financial support and we will miss him terribly. I worry what will happen if I allow the kids to confront him with their knowledge of the OW. Plus, will kicking him out be the wrong move? Shall we just suck it up and hope he brings his heart back home, eventually?
