Not Sure Which Way to Go

[downandoutintn]

I am already living the alternative. I know she is already seeing OM. It doesn't hurt that she is seeing OM as much as it does she is lying to me about. This doesn't mean that I approve of it or want to see it happen but I can't control her actions. I understand why she is seeing OM.

I guess the motivation is more to get rid of the limbo and detach even further. I am hanging by a thread she is not. She has told me many times to move on. She asked me how I felt about her seeing OP and I told her exactly what she wanted to hear "that I didn't like it." She knows that I am standing by for her and I am tired of that. I feel like this would be a good move to detach from her even further. Suggestions?