Would I be crazy or dumb for sending her a text message that said "you know the more I think about it I don't care if you see OP. I know you are anyway and it really doesn't bother me."?

I know by sending this I am telling her to move on and that she will do just that. The more I read the more I realize I keep letting her know that I am still completely here. I am tired of hanging on by a thread.


Togther 10 yrs Married 2/6/2009
Me-29 W-26
S-5 S-2
Bomb 12/10
Separated 1/11
D filed 2/11