Close to walking away myself...

[downandoutintn]

My W has intimacy issues. She knows it. Never hugged or kissed as child. And she can't or is unwilling to do te work.

My W is the same way towards me but not everyone else. I see this being a huge mountain to get over if we were to ever try to R. I have had the same thoughts; if she were to come back and not be able to provide this, could I deal with this. I don't think I could accept it. That is a very big part in why I am in my sitch in the first place. If you don't ever receive then you eventually stop wanting to give.