Well last night h basically sat on his computer in the den with me and said vey little. Then after we put the kids to bed he decided to drive across town to pick up a shirt he ordered at pennies. It was 7:30 at night and was very weird. I just acted like it was no big deal. I am sure it was to call ow but he did come back with the shirt and even stopped at walmart so it must been a short convo.
He returned to sleeping in the spare bedroom. It appears me pulling back is pissing him off as he is acting very pissy and distant. Trying to find the balance between being to distant and cold and showing him I am happy and doing 180'S. This is so hard.