Thanks Scylla.

Any perspective on why a woman might refuse to see something that threatens her model of the world?

I always felt I wouldn't mind my truth being tested, because if it held up against the test, my belief in it would be even stronger.

And if what I believed was true didn't pass the test, then I'm sure that is something I would really want to know.

But while this makes perfect sense to my rational mind, considering my emotions it's obvious just how fearful I can be of letting go and really putting things to the test.

Well, at the very least, hope this mental meandering about my sitch gives you something of value for your sitch.

One thing I know for sure is that it's time for me to get to work.

wink


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?