You know the problem with change? It makes you realize your S weakness and the reason you became complacent in the first place. I've been married 16 years and for the first 13 I was the most supportive, affectionate, giving person. During that time my W refused to provide my LL. Not sex! But touch, playfulness, flirting! I am now back to that sane person yet my W continues to refuse to provide my LL.

Yes... It makes one resentful!

I can keep my W if I choose! I am in a position to keep my family together.

But I am again growing resentful!

Not sure I want her... We shall see...

Any advice?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012