Thanks True, you are so right about not relying on his honesty. I've learned that lesson and don't care to again so I I guess I should have maybe trusted my instincts on the b-day party and known that D really would have wanted me there without anything having to be said.

I will continue to be there for the kids and lend an ear when they need it while continuing to be cautious to not help nor hinder their relationship with H.

Will have to see H today for the first time in a week at kid's soccer game. I'll be sure to get there early so I can be on the track and will only have to see him from a distance.


Me: 41
STBXH: 36
D: 11
S: 9
BOMB 12/2009
SEPARATED 5/2010
D SERVED BY ME 9/2010
FINAL D When I'm ready