Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

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OK, another weekend..I need some advice from other BITS. Wife told me she wanted a divorce on 2/8, my MC told me when I saw her alone the next day to start to "separate myself" from her, don't watch TV, play games, hang out together,etc... (sort of like going dark to see what she is missing..her best friend, but can't go completely dark in the same house) so the last 3 weeks have been mostly apart, i have gone away with S13 two of the weekends, we eat dinner together every night as a family, but don't talk on the phone 6 times a day like we used to, once every other day or so for kid related issues mostly is all.. But this morning, she is different, she just asked me to have a "down day", watch some old movies together, maybe play a game? and then she says are you comfortable with that? Am I enabling her ? or is she really looking back to her "best friend"??? Sorry to be so long on this, but I am not really sure what the right thing to do here is?? I told her I had to run to work and would see her in two hours.. didn't really commit to the day or not.. Do I look at this as a "baby step" and go with it? or is it contrary to all DB principles? I am trying to look at it, as having some "fun, relaxing time together", or is this just wishful thinking??