I contested my own divorce for many months. Stopped contesting in November, told him we needed to come to a settlement and move on. No movement since. We had a totally worthless meeting at the L's 2 weeks ago, got nothing accomplished, and not a word since then.
I have wavered back and forth between pushing for the thing, or just sitting back and letting him handle it. When I 'stood down' as I refer to it, I didn't say I was giving up on us, just stopping the legal wrangling involved in keeping the marriage together.
