Flabbergasted,

I did not see where you mentioned how long you had been married. How long were you in the townhouse? I'm asking these personal questions because sometimes a huge change, like taking on the payments of a new house and the responsibility inferred, can be the straw that broke the MLC'rs back.

If you don't mind, could we have a little more personal information please?

As for proceeding, True said it all. You need to concentrate all your energy, both physically and mentally as much as possible, on yourself. Not him.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011