I think you did good. You did what I recommended and stood up for yourself when she tried to place the blame on you for her leaving. It was 100% her decision to leave, and she needs to accept responsibility for that decision. You made this perfectly clear. Make sure to keep reinforcing this. Do not let her place the blame on you. "I had no choice" is a cop-out. It needs to get into her head that she chose this for your family, you didnt make her do it.

Gonna have to comment on the rest another time, since it is super late and I am sposed to be asleep.

Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A