Accepting responsibility for relationship issues vs. responsibility for the divorce.
In my mind, I had or created some problems for the relationship. But if one is willing to always work on those, and they are workable-ie: no drugs/drinking/abuse/relations outside the marriage, then when the other party chooses to not work on their issues or the marriage and works for the divorce (unfortunatly, it does only take 1) then I'm not sure the party always willing to work on it shares the "blame" (if you will) for the D.
Whaddya all think on this? I'm still sifting all this through my head. And sifting...
