Country from my own thread:

Originally Posted By: still figuring sh!t out Truegritter
It is time for me to stop watching her and being the life ring for her. She must face her fears without me as I have without her.

I am not serving myself by staying close and I thought I could do that while still having contact with her.

As in the beginning, I thought that a phone call or a text every week or so did not cost me anything...

But I learned it does.

I finally realize that the best thing for my W and me is for me to completely let her go...

Then she can choose without me there.

This is tough I will tell you my friends and it takes time to understand and get to this place.


Read this...

And figure out how if/or not it applies.

It took me a while to get here.

We are trying to develop a pill so that you don't have to go through the step in between

which is the pain that we endure through this thing...

So far no luck,

Though I hear they are close with a mint that is wafer thin...

The meaning of life my friend.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am