i feel things are beginning to be so final and theres nothing i can do. I heard from atty today that i have to go sign a counter petition to H petition of divorce. I dont want this but i have to respond. I was also asked my atty to possibly sit down with H and his atty to discuss financial situation. So far nothing has changed in that dept. I hate the word D at this point. This is not what i want but what choice to I have? I havent heard from H for a few days and that bothers me. Has anybody had the experience of going thru the process of divorce but it not happening? I just want a chance to see if our M is fixable. Thats all and if its not then we can proceed but i havent been given the chance.